Being the parent of a child with ADHD, Asperger syndrome, or additional behavioral challenges is an around-the-clock job – but you already knew that. What’s easy to forget is that you have the right to put your own well-being at the top of your to-do list. After all, if you’re run-down, it’ll be impossible for you to provide your best parenting. Plus, you’re a human being deserving of good health and happiness. Here are some ways to practice self-care when you’re the parent of a child with behavioral challenges.
Remember to Keep Your Body Fueled
Parents of kids with autism and ADHD tend to have higher levels of cortisol, sometimes called the “stress hormone.” This makes it all the more important to treat your body with care. Remember to stay hydrated, take a multivitamin, and make an effort to get weekly exercise. You don’t have to aim for the lifestyle of a marathon runner; it’s important to stay realistic so you don’t get frustrated by failure to meet your goals. Create a doable checklist of ways you can keep your body healthy, and check it daily.
Seek Out Respite Services
You’re not a bad parent for taking time away from your kids. In fact, you’ll be a better parent for it. Remember those high levels of cortisol? Seeking out some relaxation helps lower bad stress hormones. For some parents, it’s as easy as taking an extra five minutes to get ready in the morning. If you don’t have a trusted friend or family member to take the reins and give you a few hours off at a time, seek out respite services in your area. Check out Inland Empire Regional Center at www.inlandrc.org, which will connect you with caregivers who can offer support.
You work hard for your family and overcome challenges large and small with your kids – so give yourself some credit! One of the easiest (and free) ways to engage in self-care is by complimenting yourself. Write a list at the end of the day of five things you’re proud you accomplished that day. It can be as simple as being on time for school, or as big as reaching a new learning milestone with your child. Compliment yourself in front of your children, also. This helps create trust with your kids and shows them how to focus on the positive in the face of difficult challenges.
Parenting kids with special needs can be exhausting, and you deserve self-care. So, what will you do to care for yourself today?
Information Provided by Brain Balance of Corona